A Biblical Exploration of ITV’s Drama Butterfly
In Mark 6 Jesus is found to be ‘a prophet without honour in his home town’. This passage immediately came to mind as I considered how to respond to ITV’s recent drama series Butterfly.
Setting the Scene
In Butterfly, Maxine, a young transfeminine person, is supported by her mum to pause puberty, whilst she discerns the call to transition.
I wonder whether Maxine and Vicky are the ‘prophets’ in this story.
Is her dad, Stephen, an ordinary disciple, struggling to hear an extraordinary message?
Are the healthcare system and social services attempting to maintain archaic, legalistic expectations that are challenged by these visionary prophets, this new message?
Some might struggle with this interpretation of Gospel, or this understanding of a prophet, but try to be open, as you read, to new possibilities, new understandings, multiple ways of being, reading, knowing.
1. What?! How?!
Verse 2: On the sabbath he began to teach in the synagogue, and many who heard him were astounded. They said, “Where did this man get all this? What is this wisdom that has been given to him? What deeds of power are being done by his hands!
Jesus is misunderstood by those to whom he tells his story. They don’t get it. He is too ‘out there’. Who has given him permission? Is it really allowed? How dare he! This outrage is a response to Jesus’s challenging of tradition. He implies that a text which is sacred, deeply culturally and religiously important, can be transformed by him.
I wonder if it is similar for trans people. Maxine tells her story and others don’t get it. She is too ‘out there’. Who has given her permission to say these things? Is she really allowed to be a girl? How dare her mother support this! This outrage is a response to Maxine’s challenging of tradition, and her mother’s support of Maxine’s journey. Together, they imply that the supposedly ‘sacred’ cultural and religious norms of binary gender conformity can be, and need to be, transformed. Even, or perhaps especially, by a child.
Maxine’s challenging of norms is one of the triumphs of Butterfly. She is not straightforwardly feminine. Nor does she respond quickly and easily to questions. She refuses to simply deny her ‘male’ past. Rather, she hesitates and searches for the difficult truths. Instead of merely living into the norm of female, she embodies the complexity of being trans with honesty, humility and grace.
2. Be Normal!
Verse 3: “Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary[a] and brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon, and are not his sisters here with us?” And they took offense at him.
The very norms which Jesus, and Maxine, challenge are reinforced by their peers. Jesus’s listeners immediately zoom in on his very ordinary family background. “He’s just a normal bloke. He has a mother and brothers and sisters like any normal person. They are living amongst us. Who is he to suggest doing things differently?”
Similarly, Maxine’s normal family with its normal problems are central to her story. Stephen’s infidelity, Vicky’s tricky relationship with her own mother and Lily’s (Maxine’s sister) struggles with boys are all the bread and butter of TV drama. At times they threaten to overshadow Maxine’s story. The lives of Maxine’s seemingly ‘ordinary’ family make it difficult for peers and professionals alike to hear Maxine’s truth.
3. Is a Butterfly a Prophet?
Verse 4: Then Jesus said to them, “Prophets are not without honour, except in their hometown, and among their own kin, and in their own house.”
Jesus picks up on this selective hearing in the well-known saying “Prophets are not without honour, except in their hometown”. It is perhaps hardest for Stephen, Maxine’s dad, to hear and understand her truth precisely because Stephen is ‘just’ her Dad. Stephen represents Maxine’s hometown. He loves her and knows her as an ‘ordinary’ child, making it all the harder to recognise that she is extraordinary. Similarly, Maxine’s grandparents fail to recognise her extraordinary story. They see their grandchild as an ordinary kid who is, perhaps, trying too hard to be different.
Biblical prophets are extraordinary. They hear the call of transformation in ways which stand out from their ordinary surroundings. Often their stories and messages confound ordinary people and challenge authorities, rules and norms. They are usually heard or understood more readily by strangers than by family and friends and, as such, tend to gather new communities around themselves. Eventually, though, people hear their truths and begin to listen. That is when reconciliation is possible.
Maxine is extraordinary. She hears the call of transformation in ways which stand out from her family’s ordinary surroundings. Her story confounds people and challenges the authorities, rules and norms that her life is governed by. Her own dad, Stephen, struggles, at first, to hear or understand her story, so she gathers a new community of trans people, helping professionals and peers around herself. Eventually, though, Stephen hears her truth and begins to listen. This listening leads to reconciliation; a new understanding, a new start, a second chance.
4. Shake Off the Dust
Eventually, in preparation for Jesus’s departure, the disciples take on the role of prophet, sharing the message with those who have ears to hear it. Jesus instructs them:
Verses 10-11: He said to them, “Wherever you enter a house, stay there until you leave the place. If any place will not welcome you and they refuse to hear you, as you leave, shake off the dust that is on your feet as a testimony against them.”
Maxine’s second chance can only begin, though, when her family choose to shake off the dust on their feet. To leave behind the powers that refuse to hear them.
Let’s be honest, Vicky messes up the first time. She shakes the dust off a little too vehemently and almost loses her chance to aid her daughter’s transformation. Vicky takes Maxine to America to try to speed up the process, ultimately resulting in Vicky’s arrest and the courts gaining control over Maxine’s life. This, in my opinion, is Butterfly’s weakest moment. Few parents go to these risky extents to help their children, and I wonder if this part of the story creates unnecessary controversy which distracts from the real lives of trans children and the families.
However, I can empathise with Vicky’s passion. Her child needs help and, like many psalmists in the Hebrew Scriptures, she curses all who stand in her way. Perhaps, though, a different approach, a more gentle approach, to defiance in the face of oppression is what Jesus is suggesting in Mark 6.
Vicky and Stephen, reunited in the purpose of saving their daughter, still have to shake the dust off their feet. They have to challenge and ultimately abandon the court that is seeking to enforce particular restrictions on Maxine’s life. Instead, they turn in another direction, returning to the clinic that did welcome them and does have the power to act.
A prophet is honoured except in their home town. Does Butterfly honour the stories of trans children and their families? In places, yes. Are trans people honoured in their home towns? Often, sadly, the answer is no. The biblical way forward is to dust off our feet when we are not welcomed and go to those who do welcome us, who can support us to create change.
Are you a prophet? Where’s your home town? How can you be better supported to speak the truth to power?